Moms are tough too...

This weekend was not supposed to be filled with excitement. Infact it was supposed to be a very lowkey weekend. I got a friend to watch the boys while I helped my mom paint her kitchen and clean stuff out. No biggie right? Then she asked if we wanted to have a sleepover. So me and the boys went over and the boys and their cousin KK played and played and played. My mom and I did some touch ups, played on farmville, cleaned stuff up and gave the 2 hamsters water and food. Ok so we didnt double check the latches. She handed me the water bottles and I gave them back to her. Well... ummm... one was left open and I heard this noise that sounded like something falling. It was something falling one of my mom's cats into the 10 gallon tank the hamster was in. I quickly shut the kids in their room and tried to grab the cat falling on my ass in the process. Cat jumped out and hamster is in its mouth. It was so obviously dead. My mom comes running freaking out because she doesnt do dead animals. So who gets to chase the cat with the dead hamster in it's mouth? ME thats who. It was sooooooo something I did not want to do. So after about 15 minutes of chasing the cat around my mom's room I disposed of the hamster, scolded the cat, washed my hands about a million times, and wanted to puke. After that couldnt sleep so I didnt sleep well at all. Got up this morning and my half sister who I adore called me back. I love her. She's a riot and understands me. Which is good. I just wish it didnt take my dad dying for us to connect. Oh oh before I found the cat and mouse I talked to my favorite brother in law. We talked quite a bit sat night. It was awesome. I love him dearly. Lets see then after I talked to my half sister my sister, her boyfriend, and my uncle ray showed up. It was quite an interesting weekend. I love my uncle ray he'll never ever change. He's a riot too. My sister and I arent getting along right now. It kinda sucks ass but it is what it is. At least me and my half sister are getting along. Thats a plus.

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Ha! That title made me giggle. Today started off so good. Then I did an oops. I was making tea in the kitchen not paying attention to the buses coming and Arek and his girlfriend missed their bus. OOPS! His girlfriends mom was really awesome though and took them both to school. I apologized profusely. I hope she doesnt hate me. That would kinda suck for Arek and her daughters relationship since they swear they're going to get married. *sigh* Now onto the tea thing... I think I'm going insane. I love tea. Unsweet that is. I've discovered flavors. Right now I'm drinking Weight to GO from Teavana. YUMMY! It's supposed to supress your appetite too but uh well I dont need help in that area. HA! I've been the same weight for 2 months now. I think I've reached the point of my weight loss where I have to work for it now. Time to break out the treadmill and get my butt in gear. Well what butt I have. I suffer from noassatall syndrome. Anyway... theres my day...

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Had to come back from vacation in Michigan. Well ok it wasnt really vacation because it was way too stressful to even be called that. However, had to get back none - the - less. Got home Sat and hubs left for the field at 230 this morning. NOT HAPPY! However, thats the way it goes. I miss my daddy. I cant help it. It's just over 2 months since we lost him and I miss him. It sucks majorly. I'd give anything to have him piss me off again. *sigh* I'll talk more about it in a later post i dont feel like getting into it right now. I'm in school now. Dont know if anyone knows that. My last class ended on Feb 21. However, since my daddy passed on the 7th I havent done any of it. Starting to though. My Prof is so awesome and understands I'm just not into it. However, I need to get my butt in gear and get started on it. *sigh*

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I'm using my dang mini laptop and my hands keep hitting the back button and it goes to the last webpage i was on and completely takes away what I was writing. *sigh* So where was i... Oh yes... I dont know why it's been so long... well ok I kinda do. I've been avoiding people like the plaque. Still doing it with my cell phone. I hardly answer it at all. I just dont feel like dealing with people lately. *sigh* Alot has happened since my last post. The boys are wonderful and doing great. Chris had to go to a hospital for inpatient care for getting off some of his meds in November. It was horrible but we made it and he's doing amazing. Arek is stubborn and keeps getting in trouble at school. Dylynn is crazy. I swear that kid has more energy than the energizer bunny. They are all awesome. Jeff and I are great. Infact next month we will be celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary. I am damn proud of that. I am doing great. I've lost 150lbs since having my gastric bypass surgery. I feel great!!! Look alot better too hehe! :) More to come on why I've been gone... just know this... I was going to start a new blog and not tell anyone about it. Decided against that and came back to my blog family... something told me it was time...

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"Incredibly pissed... I stumbled across your blog today. Either this is all a joke, or you are the most selfish, self-centered lazy assed examples of a user I have ever seen. Example after example. It's so clear that you put youself ahead of your kids, forget your husband. You wear this shroud of bitchiness like it's some kind of gold star to be proud of...in reality, it's just UGLY. It's no wonder your kids keep locking you out of the house and messing with your shit, they hate you! No wonder. Mark my words, you will be divorced and living in a trailer within 5 years. posted by: post date: 04.01.09 (12:54 pm)" First of all nice to meet you thank you so much for stopping by an old blog to voice your opinion on how horrible of a mother you think I am. That was just so nice of you and ironically it was at the top of my list of things I wanted to hear today... so thank you for fulfilling my day to the fullest.... Now you probably have no idea what it's like to live with kids with autism nor do you understand that they have a whole different way of thinking therefore things happen like locking me out of the house. Am I being selfish because I vent about things that happen? So what if I am. I'm being the best mother that I can and I dont need rude and ignorant people like you telling me that I'm being selfish and will be divorced. HELLO when I wrote most of that my husband was away in korea for a year so yea he wasnt exactly on my mind. Sorry I have more things to worry about like my kids to take care of. So if you will get off your high horse maybe you could google autism and learn a little something before you go pointing fingers at me.

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